Die Knigge-Expertin Linda Kaiser kennt sich aus mit gutem Benehmen. Auch in Seminaren vermittelt sie Takt und guten Stil, und Corona ist für sie ein einziger Charaktertest. Laut der Benimm-Trainerin ist es außerdem fraglich, ob Düsseldorfs Küsschen-Kultur jemals zurückkehren wird.
Düsseldorfer Knigge-Expertin Begrüßung in Corona-Zeiten: Droht das Aus für die Küsschen-Kultur?
Interview | Düsseldorf · Die stellvertretende Vorsitzende der Deutsche-Knigge-Gesellschaft zieht nach der Corona-Krise Zwischenbilanz.
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