Das Gespräch führte Alex Witte
Bestatter Clemens Piegeler „Der Tod war auch bei uns am Esstisch immer wieder Thema“
Interview | Haan · Clemens Piegeler hat die Friedhofsgärtnerei seines Vaters übernommen. Später eröffnete er das Beerdigungsinstitut.
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